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Everything below is drawn to the same scale. Exact measurements for this product are in the description further down the page.
Insertable length is the part that actually goes in. Total length includes the base, so it always reads longer.
Girth matters more than length for comfort. If a toy feels like a lot, it is usually the width, not the inches.
New to this? Start below 6 inches insertable, go slowly, and use plenty of water-based lube.
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Strap-On-Me Harness Lingerie Diva, XXL
A lingerie-style strap-on harness from Strap-On-Me in XXL. Unlike a strap-and-buckle harness, this is built as a wearable garment, so it reads as lingerie while still holding a dildo.
Why a Lingerie Harness
Brief and lingerie style harnesses distribute pressure across the garment rather than concentrating it on two or three straps. Most wearers find that more comfortable over a longer session, and there are fewer adjustment points to work loose.
The trade-off is adjustability. A garment harness fits the size it is cut for, which makes choosing the right size more important than with a strap harness.
Key Details
Lingerie-style strap-on harness
Size XXL
Brand: Strap-On-Me
Fit and Compatibility
Check the brand's size chart against your measurements before ordering. Also check the O-ring diameter against the base of the dildo you intend to use, since the ring must be smaller than the flared base but wide enough to pass the shaft.
Care
Hand wash cold and hang to dry. Remove the toy before washing and store flat rather than folded.