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The Best Girthy Dildos by Experience Level

Which girthy dildo suits you depends on where you are starting. A breakdown by diameter, from your first thick toy through to extra girth.

How to Take a Girthy Dildo Comfortably

Girth needs warm-up, lubricant and a relaxed pelvic floor. A practical, non-medical guide to working up to a thicker dildo without discomfort.

Girth vs Length: Which One Actually Changes How...

Girth changes the stretch, length changes the depth. Here is which one to prioritise when choosing a dildo, and why the two mistakes are not equally recoverable.

How to Measure Dildo Girth (and What the Number...

Girth is the distance around a dildo at its widest point. Here is how to measure girth and diameter, convert between them, and work out what the numbers actually feel...

Suction Cup Dildo vs. Strap-On: Which Is Better...

By Casey M. · Last updated August 2026 A suction cup dildo and a strap-on both enable hands-free play, but one mounts to a surface while the other is worn...

Using a Suction Cup Dildo in the Shower: What W...

By Casey M. · Last updated August 2026 A suction cup dildo can work in the shower, as long as you mount it on smooth tile or glass and accept...