A sex toy gift is one of the most personal presents you can give, which is why picking the right one matters. This sex toy gift guide covers 16 gifts we have in stock, sorted by who they're for and how much you want to spend. Every pick is a well-known brand or a toy our customers already love.
TL;DR: Quick Answer
- Not sure what they like? A versatile vibrator like the Magic Wand Micro or We-Vibe Touch X is the safest bet.
- For couples: the We-Vibe Sync Lite or a remote control cock ring.
- For dildo lovers: the Shaft Model N 7.5 inch or a Tantus silicone dildo.
- Stocking stuffers under $25: lube, toy cleaner, massage oil or a Tenga Egg.
Key Takeaways: Buying a Sex Toy Gift
- Think about who it's for: a first toy should be simple and versatile, not big or complicated.
- Add lube: almost every toy is better with it, and it's an easy add-on.
- Rechargeable beats batteries: fewer surprises when they open it.
- Order early: holiday shipping gets busy, so don't leave it to the last week.
- Discretion is built in: every order ships in plain packaging.
Is a Sex Toy a Good Gift?
For a partner, usually yes. Toys are more common than most people think: an Indiana University study found more than half of women (52.5 percent) had used a vibrator.
The key is matching the gift to the person. A first-timer wants something simple and friendly. Someone with a collection will appreciate an upgrade or something they don't have yet.
Sex Toy Gifts for Her
Vibrators are the most popular sex toy gift for women, and these three cover most tastes. Browse more in our vibrators collection.
Magic Wand Micro
Rechargeable mini wand
A smaller, rechargeable version of the famous Magic Wand. Strong, simple and easy to love.
We-Vibe Touch X
Multi-purpose vibrator | We-Vibe
A versatile shape for clitoral play or full body massage. Great as a first vibrator.
Lovense Lush 2
Wearable | app controlled | rechargeable
A wearable vibe that can be controlled from an app, even long distance. Fun for couples too.
Sex Toy Gifts for Him
SVAKOM Sam Neo
App controlled stroker | rechargeable
A rechargeable stroker with app control. A big step up from a plain sleeve.
Bang! Remote Vibrating Cock Ring and Bullet
Remote control | 28 functions
A vibrating cock ring plus a separate bullet, both on a remote. Works solo or with a partner.
Sex Toy Gifts for Couples
We-Vibe Sync Lite
Couples vibrator | We-Vibe app
Worn during sex so both partners feel it. Settings can be changed from the app, even from across the room.
Bend Over Beginner Vibrating Harness Kit
Strap-on kit | adjustable velvet harness
Everything a couple needs to try strap-on play or pegging for the first time, in one box.
Curious about pegging? Our strap-on dildos and harness guides are a good place to start.
Sex Toy Gifts for Dildo Lovers
Dildos are our specialty, so here are three safe bets. Size matters with dildos, so if you're not sure, go average rather than big.
Shaft Model N 7.5 Inch
Dual density liquid silicone | suction cup
One of the most realistic silicone dildos you can buy, in a size most people enjoy.
Tantus Silk Medium
5.3 in | 100% silicone | harness compatible
A smooth, beginner friendly silicone dildo from one of the best brands in the business.
King Scorpion
Fantasy silicone dildo | 8.2 in insertable
For the person who already has everything realistic. Bold, textured and unlike anything in a regular toy box.
Want more ideas? See our Shaft dildos and fantasy dildos.
Stocking Stuffers Under $25
Small, useful and easy to sneak into a stocking. Lube in particular gets used up fast, so it's always welcome.
Sliquid H2O Lube 4.2 oz
Water-based | works with every toy
A simple, body-friendly water-based lube that's safe with every toy material.
Swiss Navy Foaming Toy Cleaner
1.6 oz | foaming | travel size
Not glamorous, but anyone with toys will use it. Pairs perfectly with any toy gift.
JO Aromatix Massage Oil
Vanilla | 4 oz
An easy, low pressure gift that sets the mood for a massage night.
Tenga Egg
Single-use stretchy stroker
A fun, cheap stocking stuffer for him. Small enough to fit in any stocking.
More lube options are in our lube collection.
Splurge Sex Toy Gifts
Njoy Pure Wand
Stainless steel | G-spot and P-spot
A weighty steel wand that lasts forever. A cult favorite for G-spot and P-spot play.
Le Wand Crystal G-Wand
Black obsidian crystal
Handcrafted crystal with a curved tip. Beautiful enough to leave on the nightstand.
Tips for Giving a Sex Toy Gift
- Match the experience level. A first toy should be small, simple and rechargeable.
- Don't guess big sizes. With dildos, average sizes are the safest gift.
- Include lube. If the gift is for anal play, the Cleveland Clinic stresses using plenty of lube.
- Think about privacy. Give it in person, not at the family gift exchange.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the best sex toy gift for a beginner?
A small, simple vibrator like the We-Vibe Touch X or Magic Wand Micro. They're easy to use and work for almost everyone.
Is it weird to give a sex toy as a gift?
Not for a partner. It can be a fun way to start a conversation about what you both enjoy. For friends, keep it light and give it privately.
What's a good sex toy gift for couples?
The We-Vibe Sync Lite is made to be worn during sex, so both partners feel it. A remote control vibe is another fun pick.
Do you ship sex toy gifts discreetly?
Yes. Every order ships in plain packaging with nothing on the outside that says what's inside.
What's a good sex toy gift under $25?
Lube, a toy cleaner, massage oil or a Tenga Egg. They're useful, inexpensive and easy to tuck into a stocking.