Pegging Dildos and Strap-On Harness Kits | Beginners to Advanced

TL;DR: Pegging Dildos and Strap-On Kits

Pegging kits and dildos for couples trying strap-on play, from a $11 non phallic starter to 3 piece size-up training sets. Most come as a matched harness and dildo, so the fit is sorted out of the box.

Key Takeaways

  • Styles: harness and dildo kits, curved silicone pegging kits, lace panty harness sets and a non phallic dildo.
  • Good for beginners: slimmer shafts and training sets that let you size up slowly.
  • Brands: Boundless, Strap U (Pegged, Lace Envy), Lux Fetish and Sextoy.com.

Already have a harness? Shop strap-on dildos or prostate dildos. Need a harness on its own? See our strap-on harnesses.

Starting small? Try small dildos and anal dildos, and don't forget the lube.

Our Top 5 Pegging Dildos and Strap-On Harness Kits | Beginners to Advanced Recommendations:

What Makes a Good Pegging Dildo

Pegging is anal play, so the dildo needs a flared base, a smooth or gently curved shaft and a size that suits the person receiving. A slight curve helps reach the prostate. A matching harness that stays snug keeps the wearer in control.

Styles You'll Find Here

  • Complete harness and dildo kits, like the Boundless Silicone Pegging Kit
  • Curved kits aimed at the prostate, like the Boundless Silicone Curve Pegging Kit
  • The Strap U Pegged dildo with harness
  • Lace panty harness sets like the Lace Envy
  • Size-up training sets from Lux Fetish with more than one dildo
  • A non phallic 6.5 inch pegging dildo if you'd rather skip the realistic look

Sizing for Beginners

Start smaller than you think. Something slim, around 1 to 1.25 inches wide, is plenty for the first few times. A training set with two or three sizes lets you move up when you're both ready, without buying a whole new kit.

Harness Fit

Most kits here come with an adjustable harness. Snug it up so the base sits firmly against the pubic bone. A loose harness makes the dildo wobble and is harder to control.

Lube and Prep

The body doesn't make its own lube for anal, so use lots of water-based lube and reapply often. Start with fingers or a small plug, go slow and let the receiver set the pace.

Care Tips

Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner before and after every use. Use water-based lube with silicone toys, since silicone lube can damage them over time. Let it dry fully and store it in its own pouch, away from direct sunlight. Most harnesses can be hand washed, check the label first.

Frequently Asked Questions

What size pegging dildo should a beginner get?

Something around 5 to 6 inches long and slim. Length matters less than width for comfort, so keep the girth modest at first.

Do I need a kit or can I buy the dildo and harness separately?

Either works. A kit is the easy option since the fit is already matched. If you buy separately, make sure the dildo has a flared base that fits your harness ring.

Why do pegging dildos curve?

The prostate sits a few inches in, toward the front of the body. A gentle curve angles the head toward it.

Which lube is best for pegging?

A thick water-based anal gel works with every toy material. Use more than you think and reapply.

How do I clean the harness?

Remove the dildo, then hand wash the harness in warm soapy water and let it air dry. Leather and some fabrics need special care, so check the listing.