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Everything below is drawn to the same scale. Exact measurements for this product are in the description further down the page.
- Insertable length is the part that actually goes in. Total length includes the base, so it always reads longer.
- Girth matters more than length for comfort. If a toy feels like a lot, it is usually the width, not the inches.
- New to this? Start below 6 inches insertable, go slowly, and use plenty of water-based lube.
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Gender Fluid Skylar Strap-on Harness Black
Meet your new favorite companion for intimate exploration. The Skylar harness is thoughtfully crafted for everyone—no matter your body, gender identity, or preferences. Designed with your comfort and confidence in mind, this inclusive strap-on harness transforms how you connect with your partner and yourself, making every moment feel intentional, pleasurable, and authentically yours.
Why You'll Love It
- Plush Padding for All-Night Comfort: Generously padded throughout, the Skylar cradles your body with cushioned support. Whether you're exploring for minutes or hours, the soft padding keeps you comfortable and lets you stay present in the moment rather than thinking about fit.
- Fully Adjustable for Your Perfect Fit: With adjustable straps at the waist and thighs, the Skylar adapts to your unique body. Loosen or tighten until it sits snugly—think of it like jeans that actually fit—so the dildo moves with your body as one seamless unit, not lagging or feeling disconnected.
- True Inclusive Sizing for All Bodies: Created to fit hips from 28 inches to 82 inches and thighs of all sizes, the Skylar harness welcomes everyone. This isn't a one-size-fits-some situation; it's genuinely designed for you, whatever your body looks like.
How to Get Started
- Lay the harness out and loosen all straps using the buckles.
- Unclip the silver front clips and select the O-ring that fits your dildo.
- Clip the O-ring into place using two of the front clips.
- Slide your dildo into the O-ring and secure the final silver front clip.
- Slowly slide the harness up your legs until it reaches your waist.
- Tighten the waist straps until snug, then adjust the thigh straps until firm but comfortable.
- Adjust as needed—your comfort is the goal.
Ready to explore? Add the Skylar harness to your collection today and discover what inclusive, comfortable, body-positive pleasure feels like.
Frequently Asked Questions

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Pair your new toy with a body-safe water-based lube and a proper toy cleaner.