Packer Dildos

TL;DR: Packer Dildos

Packers for everyday wear, stand to pee, and pack and play, in a range of skin tones from about 4 to 5 inches soft. Brands include Tantus, Packer Gear, Gender X, Strap U and Blush, with prices from about $13 to $92.

Key Takeaways

  • Soft packers: for a natural bulge under clothes, like the Blush Performance Packer and Strap U Large Bulge.
  • Stand to pee (STP): hollow packers from Packer Gear that let you pee standing up.
  • Pack and play: firmer silicone packers like the Tantus On The Go and POP n' Play that also work for sex.

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What Is a Packer?

A packer is a soft, realistic penis you wear in your underwear or a packing harness. It gives you a natural bulge so clothes fit and move the way you want. Lots of trans men, non-binary people and drag kings use them every day, and some people just like how it feels.

Styles You'll Find Here

  • Soft everyday packers, like the Blush Performance Packer 5 inch and Strap U Large Bulge
  • Stand to pee (STP) packers, like the Packer Gear STP and Ultra Soft STP
  • Silicone packers in several skin tones, like the Gender X 4 inch
  • Pack and play packers that are firm enough for sex, like the Tantus On The Go
  • Squirting packers, like the Tantus POP n' Play

Picking the Right Type

If you just want a bulge, a soft packer is the easiest and cheapest place to start. If you want to use public restrooms standing up, go for an STP, and practise at home first. If you want one toy for daytime and play, look at pack and play models, which have a firmer core you can use with a harness.

Size and Skin Tone

Most packers here are around 4 to 5 inches soft, which looks natural under most clothes. Go smaller if you wear tight jeans or work out a lot. Many models come in several tones, so you can pick one close to your own.

Wearing It

You can wear a packer in snug briefs, a packing pouch or a packing harness. A harness keeps it in place best, especially if you move around a lot.

Care Tips

Wash your packer with warm water and mild soap after wearing it, and let it dry fully. Silicone packers can go with water-based lube only. Softer TPE packers can get a little tacky over time, so a light dusting of cornstarch helps keep them feeling smooth.

Frequently Asked Questions

What size packer should I get?

Around 4 to 5 inches is a good start for daily wear. You can always size up once you know how it sits with your clothes.

Can I have sex with a packer?

Only with pack and play models. Regular soft packers are too floppy for penetration.

How does a stand to pee packer work?

It has a cup that sits under you and a hollow shaft that channels urine forward. It takes some practice, so try it at home first.

How do I keep it in place?

Snug underwear works for some people. A packing harness or packing briefs hold it in place much better.

Is shipping discreet?

Yes. Every order ships in plain packaging with no mention of what's inside.