Last updated October 2026 · Written by Casey M., Resident Toy Specialist at Epic Dildos.
TL;DR
A chin dildo (also called a chindo or chin strap dildo) is a dildo on a head harness that sits under your chin, so you can give hands free penetration while staying face to face. For a first time, pick a small silicone model, practise the fit with clothes on, use lots of water based lube and keep it playful. Shop Chin Dildos.
Key Takeaways
- Best first pick: the silicone Accommodator, latex free and easy to clean.
- For every body: anyone can wear one, regardless of gender or anatomy.
- Comfort first: support the neck, start shallow, take breaks.
What Is a Chin Dildo?
A chin dildo is a short dildo attached to a strap that goes around the head, with the toy sitting at the chin. When the wearer moves their head, the toy moves with it. That means the wearer can combine kissing, oral and penetration, keep their hands free, and stay close enough to read their partner.
Why Couples Love Them
- Closeness: eye contact and face to face play.
- Hands free: hands stay free for touch, holding or restraints.
- New roles: a fun alternative to a hip harness, and easy to switch who wears it.
- Gentler on the body: supported positions suit chronic pain, fatigue or limited mobility.
For Lesbian, Bi, Queer and Trans Couples
Chin dildos are a long time favourite in queer communities because they do not depend on any particular anatomy. Anyone can wear one, and for some trans and non binary people giving pleasure this way can feel affirming. Wanting to try one does not say anything about your identity; it just says you are curious. Pairing chin play with a strap-on or a colourful toy from Rainbow Dildos is a fun way to make it your own.
Chin Dildos vs Other Wearable Toys
- Hip harness strap-on: best for thrusting. See Harnesses.
- Strapless: one end sits inside the wearer for shared sensation. See Strapless Dildos.
- Packers: for everyday wear and gender expression. See Packer Dildos.
- Chin dildo: best for closeness, oral combos and hands free service.
Chin Dildos in Stock
Accommodator Silicone Chin Dildo, 5.5 Inch, Black ($47.97)
Our top pick for first timers: body safe silicone and latex free.
The Original Accommodator Latex Chin Dildo, Black ($47.97)
The classic Accommodator and our most popular chin dildo.
Original Accommodator Latex Chin Dildo, 5 Inch, Beige ($54.59)
The same trusted design in a lighter tone.
Original Accommodator Latex Chin Dildo, Brown ($35.62)
The most affordable way to try chin play.
Lux F Original Facilitator Chin Dildo, Black ($49.98)
A different harness style if the Accommodator does not fit well.
The Original Accommodator models are latex, so choose the silicone version if either partner has a latex allergy.
Your First Session, Step by Step
- Talk first: who wears it, what is on the menu, and signals for more, less and stop.
- Dress rehearsal: put it on clothed, adjust the straps, and test how it moves when you nod and turn.
- Set up: towel down, water based lube and water nearby.
- Start small: one supported position, shallow movement, short session.
- Aftercare: cuddle, hydrate, stretch the neck and jaw, and talk about what to repeat.
Beginner Positions
- Supported lap: the wearer reclines against a headboard while the partner straddles and controls depth.
- Pillow throne: the wearer sits or kneels on pillows; the partner sits above and sets the pace.
- Side lying: the easiest on joints and the neck.
Common Worries
- "Will it feel silly?" Probably a bit at first. Laughing together is part of it.
- "What if we don't like it?" That is useful to know, and still good practice in talking about sex.
- Neck or jaw strain: use pillows, keep sessions short, and stop if anything hurts.
Go Further
Ready for more? Read Advanced Oral Techniques with Chin Dildos for combining it with oral and pegging, or From Gags to Chindos for BDSM and service scenes.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is a chin dildo?
A chin dildo, also called a chindo or chin strap dildo, is a dildo mounted on a head harness so it sits under the wearer's chin. The wearer moves their head to give hands free stimulation while staying face to face.
Are chin dildos good for beginners?
Yes. Start with a smaller silicone model, keep the first session short, use plenty of water based lube and agree on signals for more, less and stop.
Which chin dildo should we buy first?
The Accommodator Silicone Chin Dildo. It is body safe silicone, latex free, about 5.5 inches and easy to clean.
Can anyone wear a chin dildo?
Yes. It works for any gender or body, which is why many lesbian, bi, queer, trans and non binary couples love it.
How do we keep the wearer comfortable?
Adjust the straps so nothing digs in, support the neck with pillows, take breaks, and stop if there is jaw or neck pain.
Is shipping discreet?
Yes. Epic Dildos ships every order in plain, unmarked packaging.